Friday 22 January 2010

Dates


Really, what's so interesting about having a serious boyfriend? You don't enjoy parties, you never have time for yourself, and you can't sleepover at your best friend's (who happens to be a guy) without your boyfriend feeling awkward about it. Not to mention you don't go out with your girlfriends so much, and you can't flirt with other guys without feeling guilty.
So, I really don't get those girls who are always desperately seeking a boyfriend. Okay, If you are lucky and you happen to find the love of your life at age 16, good for you! (even though I doubt you will...) But just dating someone to say "I have a boyfriend" is really stupid. Can't you see being single (but not alone!) is way better?
Why?
  • You can do whatever you want, not caring about what your boyfriend will think.
  • You can have a different date each night!
  • You can hook up with lots of guys in a party if you want to.
  • You can flirt with guys in stores to have discounts!
  • You can give your number to some hot guy you met at a Starbucks.
  • You can have a girl's night with your girlfriends anytime!
  • You can pick what to watch on the cinema based on which film has the hottest actors!
  • You can a have a hot dream with any guy and not feel guilty.
  • You can look at anyone randomly at the street and secretly wonder if he's The One, only to replace these thoughts 2 seconds later wondering if he's a good kisser.
Ok, ok, I know, having a serious boyfriend has its advantages too. But I cannot think of more than three:
  • You always have someone to talk to, at any time, and he can't complain if you feel like talking at 3am on a Wednesday. (even though that's what your best friend's for, right?)
  • You always have someone to tell you you are hot. (okay, I wont say again that your best friend will do that too. And your mom.)
  • You always have someone to make out with. (alright, I give up: your best friend won't do that...)

So having a boyfriend has (one) advantages too. But I think the ones of being single are way better!
The bad thing about being single is when you really feel like hooking up with someone, and you are home alone on a Tuesday night, babysitting your little brothers....

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